The Good in Relationships

Relationships, we all have them, seek them, fight for them and desire them.  They are the very product of our nature, given to each of us by our Creator.  Yet the difficulties that exist with many relationships, causes us to wonder, either about the person we are in a relationship with, or with our ability to have a healthy and productive relationship ourselves.

Relationships are never easy.  Each person brings their own degree of insecurities, guilt, pride and selfishness.  To find the perfect person is to practice denial.  To understand a perfect relationship, is to understand the trinity.  God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, is our reference point to a perfect relationship.  The oneness that exist in the trinity is the very essence of perfect love.  One exist not over or under the other, but as a product, resource or empowerment to, for, and with the other. 

As human beings we are hardly capable of the perfect oneness, or love, of the trinity.  However the model of oneness is nevertheless a wonderful goal to attain in our relationships on earth.  When we see one another as a resource, capable of enhancing and empowering our lives, with unique attributes and qualities, we see God's gift to us through the lives of others.  It is far more productive to see those around us as gifts, as opposed to a burden, as a resource more than a waste, as a part of God's ultimate plan, not just someone in our path.

Genesis 2:18, "It is not good for the man to be alone".  Relationships are good, find the good in your relationships today.



3 comments (Add your own)

1. Suraj wrote:
the reason your resntioalhips dont last is not your fault ill tell you why. men have to feel a physical attraction as well as an emotion connection with a woman. a man can walk up to any woman and feel a physical connection i.e sexual chemistry. but if he has no emotional connection it will never work. men are extremely confusing creatures i swear but they are generally looking for a lifetime mate someone who is physically and emotianially healthy, someone who can give him healthy children and be stable enough to raise them. i could go on and on. but i basically outlined why its not u its him the sayin is true. we as women can try and try to impress but he wants what he wants. and for god sake dont ever let ur self esteem drop, keep a smile on ur face. confidence and a smile gets u noticed.

Mon, August 6, 2012 @ 5:33 AM

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Wed, August 8, 2012 @ 9:08 AM

3. Haikal wrote:
Every person has a sotmlaue !You just have to test around to find the right person .Also dont let little arguements break a good relationship .Every person has enemies , friends , good friends , best friends , uncompatible people , pretty good compatibility people and that soul mate so test around ! Look for that special person and dont let bad things ruin the relationship ! Even if the beginning is rough theres a smooth part to that road and the choice if yours to rough it up again or keep it smooth

Wed, August 8, 2012 @ 6:53 PM

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